Love, Trust and Respect are the three main ingredients of an Ideal Relationship. Lacking even a single one of them leads to a dysfunctional bond between couples leading to eventful breakups, divorces and annulments. But even then many fail to get out of that toxic bond because they idealize rather than realize their commitment which causes them to cling to the hope that things will get better in the future, even though there seems to be no chance of it in reality. Perhaps love is like that. You not only get emotionally attached to a person but you get attached on so many more levels which makes it very hard for you to relieve yourself from it no matter how much hurt it is causing you. Relationships are tough to continue when they no longer help you stay happy and content. They are meant to nourish you, help you grow not demotivate you and leave you exhausted and mentally stressed out. We have provided a list of various signs that will indicate that your relationship is going the downhill side and it is high time to get out of it and live your life the way you want to.
It is sometimes portrayed in our society that a little lying and deception is tolerable for a healthy relationship. Trust me, it is NOT. No matter how much you love your partner, if you have to lie to them and hide the truth of anything no matter how trivial you are deceiving them and who thinks deception will cause a healthy and long lasting relationship. So if you ever think that your partner is hiding facts from you or lying to you about something, confront them and if they do not admit their mistake then it is time for you to let go. It is better to not get involved with someone whose words you don’t trust or always doubting their authenticity. There is a difference between believing someone is being dishonest and just plain “jealous” and “paranoid.
Healthy and long term relations between partners are built upon respect for each other. If your partner does not respect you the way you expect them to be then how can you see yourself grow and develop in the future? Instead of uplifting you, if they are degrading you then why are you wasting your time in a relationship which will give you only pain? You live only once, so live it with someone who respects you, your ideas, your thinking, and your life.
Understanding is one of the most important pillars of a strong and wholesome relationship. If you are struggling while communicating with your partner you will always be conscious about sharing your thoughts thinking that they won’t get it the way you want to. It is true that it requires effort to have a better communication with your partner but not for long. Once you understand your partner the way they understand you then your relationship becomes so much more fruitful life going. However if your partner fails to understand you then you are never going to have the ideal sort of compatibility, and do not think that in relationships opposites attract so misunderstanding is bound to happen. Yes it is, but not forever. Understanding does not mean that you have to have the same ideas and thinking as your partner. It means giving value and understanding your partner’s ideas no matter how different they are from yours. If miscommunication is ongoing in your relationship, break it off.
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